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***COMMENT***
Hi Dave,
I have been reading your emails for some time and have found
them most enlightening.
Something you wrote in your last Mailbag - How to avoid
being "Just Friends", caught my attention. You mentioned
that some friends you knew, now no longer need to approach
women.
I went through a stage when I was younger, 16, 17 & 18,
where I knew I didn't need to talk to women. I'd be with
friends at the shopping mall, where I'd have girls asking me
my name, phone number etc. I was always noticed, which I
knew had something to do with my body language and the way
I conducted myself.
This was all very well until I took a fall from grace after
being accused of being egotistical, and then spent the last
few years searching for this confidence that I'd lost.
Unsuccessfully.
After reading your column, I used your cocky funny theory to
chat with a few women and suddenly found my feet again, it
was amazing. Like jumping back on a bike after years of
driving a car.
I recently started a new job in which I knew I was not going
to stay. I asked out the most attractive woman in the
company, knowing I had nothing to lose, I have been out with
her once and now have her wanting to go out again, after
I've left.
Now I'm iching to get out again on the weekend and meet some
more hotties.
I do have some advice for your readers, don't sit there on
sidelines, put yourself in the game, playing is the only
way to learn.
Thanks,
The new master
Sydney, Australia
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I have always found situations like yours fascinating.
It seems to me that a lot of times, we know exactly what
to do to get the results we want... but for whatever reason
we just don't do it.
Here are some common reasons for this:
1) We get bored. Boredom is one of the most common causes
of failure in my experience. Here's how it works: You start
doing something, get great success, but start to think that
you need to do something new because YOU'RE getting bored
with it... not because others are.
2) A negative emotional experience. When a negative
experience is coupled with a strong emotion, it creates a
deep IMPRINT. In your case, you were accused of being
"egotistical". I'm assuming that for whatever reason this
caused you to feel BAD, which led to you deciding that you
needed to behave differently.
3) By trying to make small improvements we lose the original
formula that created success... or we just plain evolve to
a different strategy that turns out to not be as successful.
I've done this many times in my life. By trying to make
something better I actually make it worse.
4) Just plain forgetting. Let's say that you are single, and
you're going out a lot, meeting a lot of women, and really
having a lot of success. Then let's say you meet a really
nice woman and have a relationship for two years... but then
break up. It's easy to forget all of the little nuances that