BORING

BORING.......
What the hell do you ask a girl you know nothing about ?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, you do need my help.
The answer is simple:
STOP TRYING TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING.
As soon as you start talking, END the conversation.
Say "It was nice meeting you, I'm going to get back to my
friends..." then turn away. Quickly turn back and say "Hey!
Do you have email?" If she says yes, pull out a pen and
paper and say "Here, write it down... I'd like to talk to
you again."
It's really not that difficult.
The problem in busy, crowded public situations is that
there are WAY too many distractions. You're competing with
music, loud drunk people, or whatever else is around. It's
like trying have a meaningful conversation at a baseball
game.
Instead, get the info, and move on. If you follow up with
a charming email, you'll hear back 50%-80% of the time (in
my experience).
And for GODSAKES... STOP ASKING BORING QUESTIONS! You're
not on a job interview. And neither is she. Boring, lame,
typical questions only position you as an average dork.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Great advice you give, i used to be one of the wussy guys,
being nice and always there for the girls, but i've been
using c&f lately on new girls i meet AND ones i already
knew.
it works. Really well. im no longer the 'nice guy' to them..
im the guy they all talk about. But i have a problem.. ive
learnt the hard way once... and since moved on....now the
problem has presented itself again :/ here it is...:
I get to know a group of absolute HOT chicks.. and i want
them all... so... i bust on them all... nothing wrong
there..
everythings going fine... later down the track though...
they all want a piece of me..... anything wrong with that?
NOT AT ALL!!! first time this happened i blindly dove in..
hooking up with all of them.. not all at once
unfortunately...
one thing wrong though... they find out about each other and
all of a sudden im the sleave bucket they never want to see
again.... WHAMO! now there were some hunnies in this group
dave, and i wanted more than just once off's with them.. ALL
of them!! but noooo... im the bad guy now. ( i can see their
point really but come on) NOW, being the Jedi Master... i
know you have the answer to my problem as the situation has
popped up again with a new group... im seeing one at the
moment but her friends are to hot to leave alone... i use
c&f
on them and they love it but i see where this is going.. the
same way as it did before..... am i writing to much here??
anyway.. back to the point..... How can i avoid the same
thing happening? im sure you can see my situation... is
there
a way of having.... can i say sex on here? or shall i say
shag.. ill say shag.... how can i shag them all with out
them
getting bitchy about me sleeping with the others too?? now
don’t go accusing me dave of being greedy... i know you'd
have
been in this situation before. i need your wisdom and
quick!!
Thanks again man, you've helped me ten fold.
JF.
AUST.
P.S. im not re-reading this to see if it makes sense.. ill
leave that up to you heheheh.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yea, my heart really goes out to you. I'm feelin' ya. It
must be tough.
I'm going to have to make an educated guess on this one.
I'll bet that it's not the fact that you're sleeping with
all of them that's the MAIN problem... it's probably that
you didn't make it clear up front what was going on.
They probably feel like you were trying to HIDE the fact
and they CAUGHT YOU sneaking around on all of them...
When, in fact it doesn't sound like that's what you were
trying to do.
Remember, perception is more important to most people
than reality. And if a woman perceives that you're trying
to deceive her, she'll shut you down.
I'd recommend that you figure out how to make sure that
all of the women you're seeing know that you're at least
seeing other women that they know.
You don't have to get into specifics, but if you want to
prevent the "you're a sneaky bastard" problem, then
you might want to diffuse the situation before it BECOMES
a situation.
Women will accept you for whatever you are... but they
don't like it if they suspect that you're trying to pull
the wool over their eyes.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
How are you man? I bought your book and I really like what
you're doing. I've found your research to be right on point!
Anyways, I have some notes from the field for you and your
readers. This is a perfect example of the "unaffected and
crassness towards a hot chick" behaviour you wrote of in
your book. I was at a local club the other night and I found
a place at the bar where I noticed a lot of girls were going
to get served. So I and my friends went right to that spot
and I just sort of planted myself against the bar in a
slouching yet confident kind of way. Just playing cool and
unaffected by any hot chick going past but still making eye
contact with them. Well, inevitably a hot chick and her
friends slides up to my left. I of course look over my
shoulder at her and tell her my drink preference. She said
something about how "I should be buying her a drink", and I
said "yeah that'll happen" very sarcastically. So the
dialogue went on and of course I was wearing out the whole
cocky & funny thing and busting on her, it was working like
a charm of course. I even at one point was asked buy her
friend to pass a napkin and I did that little, she reached
for it and I pulled it away bit several times, which
although
very basic was cracking her up. Needless to say, this hottie
that i had initiated conversation with was all about rubbing
her titties all over my side that was open to her, my back!
I thought of the most cocky thing I could say that was
subtley sexual and as she was rubbing those nice titties of
hers all over me, i looked her in the eyes and said, "you
really need to stop doing that!" Well, she looked at me is
such disbelief that it seemed no man has ever even slightly
suggested that she not rub her tits on him. Which obviously
has in fact never happened. Needless to say she was eyeing
me all night but I had to move on to another hottie, from
Sweden, and later in the night I saw her dragging around by
hand some big chump that she probably just met but when she
walked past me with her "boytoy" those eyes of hers were
shouting "f--k me, please!"
Well that's it for the story keep up the "good struggle",
Adam "el cholo"
P.S. (do you think that your research is just as valid for
use in Latin American countries such as Mexico?)
>>>MY COMMENTS:
To answer your last question first, I get emails from guys
all over the world who are using these techniques... so my
guess is that they're fairly universal. I'm sure that
there's a culture somewhere that isn't friendly to it, but
I haven't heard about it yet.
And as for your story... I LOVE IT!
It's a true Jedi level maneuver to bust on a woman for
doing something that any other man would pay money to
have done.
It's confusing, and, when done right, MAGICAL.
Keep up the great work.