A lot of guys don't get this.,

one day but cold the next" is because during the time
she was "all over you", YOU ACTED LIKE A WUSS.
A lot of guys don't get this.
They get all upset because a girl was friendly one day,
but totally acted different the next.
What often happens is something like this:
1) You do the right things, and make her feel ATTRACTION.
2) She starts acting affectionate. Maybe you make out.
3) You start saying "Wow, I really like you" etc. and act
all smitten with her to her face too early on instead of
just leaning back, enjoying, and playing it cool.
4) She CHANGES HER MIND and sees you in a different light
because you turned into a WUSS right before her very eyes.
You feel me?
Better way: Keep doing what you know works. Keep leaning
back, being unpredictable, playing hard to get, etc. And
don't start acting smitten too early on!
***COMMENT***
hey dave
just to let you know that your stuff is genius...Ive never
had so much success before. I used to do EXACTLY what not
to do, in fact i didnt do anything right. You see I was
the "Nice Guy" I kissed girls asses to make them like me,
and i could never figure out why they acted ignorant and
ignored me. Now thanks to you man i figured out what I
did wrong. I now have confidence and i am willing to talk
to chicks i never would before. Just wanted to thank you
for all you have done for us, i speak for everyone when I
say that you are the man. I hope that every man knows
this stuff, but if not more women for us right?
-J
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks for your email.
I know, I know... it's soooo easy to do the wrong things
with women and NOT EVEN REALIZE THAT YOU'RE DOING THEM.
Unless you get clued-in about how this game works, it's
very difficult to figure this stuff out by "trial and
error".
Keep up the great work.
***QUESTION***
Dear Dave,
I downloaded your book and all I can say is WOW! I was blind
and now I see. I've always been known as a "nice" guy and
looking back I can see how much of a wuss I really was.
Here's the story. Some friends of mine and I go on a camping
trip every year. This year one guy brought a surprisingly
attractive 20-something with him.(I'm 36). Later that night
she and I were the last ones sitting around the fire after
everyone else had crashed. We had a few drinks and I found
out that she and my friend were not a couple. Then she came
out and said that she knew that I was attracted to her but
that I "wasn't her type". Before your book I would have
become embarrassed and tucked my tail between my legs and
fled. Instead I turned it around on her and started busting
her balls using C&F. We ended up talking until the sun came
up and when it came time for her and my friend to leave she
asked me if I had a pen. She gave me her phone #(I never
even asked for it) and asked me for mine. That never would
have happened in my previous life! Everyone out there: Get
this book!
Thanks Dave!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah, isn't it exciting when you do something that you NEVER
would have done in the past... and it WORKS!?
Of course, you're just getting started... you're going to
take things to a whole new level, I'm sure.
Just make sure that you don't start calling this girl
every 20 minutes, and that you give her space to miss you
and think about you.
Keep it up.
***QUESTION***
Hey
,
I have been a subscriber of your newsletter for a while
now. I have pretty much perfected your techniques and have
had tremendous success with them. One thing I recently
realized is that after you have them hooked you can keep
them on the line even more by using strange timing for
telephone calls etc. What I mean by this is that I have
found it beneficial to return their calls at weird hours
when you wouldn't expect them to be home or awake if they
are so that you leave a message. Then when they call about
half the time all I do is pick up the phone and say "can't
talk sorry bye," hang up, and go back to watching
sportscenter. The girls who are calling obviously want to
see more of you, so being hard to reach makes the game all
the livelier. If you mix being hard to reach with the
occasional phone call it seems like a shortcut to taking
it to a more physical level because they aren't sure when
they will see you next. I was wondering if you have used
this and if you think it is a good idea or if there is some
unforeseen way this could backfire?
Thanks.
Z
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You horrible man!
You actually tell women that you're BUSY, and hang up so
you can go back to watching SPORTSCENTER?
You're killing me over here.
I can't believe it, I think you're one of about five men
alive that have gotten to the point where you don't need
to stop everything just for a little attention from a
woman!
Hell, I'm starting to feel attracted to you.
Easy, boy.
You are doing EXACTLY the right things. Keep it up.
Being unpredictable, hard to reach, and mysterious is
MAGIC when it comes to creating ATTRACTION.
Of course, no technique is perfect, and if you do these
things long enough you will have something come up as
a result. But overall, this is a WINNING combination.
If and when you do have a problem or setback, don't
worry about it. These things happen. You'll have so
much success that it won't matter.
As a side note, I want to mention a quick little
something...
I think that there's a line between doing things that
make women feel attracted to you so you can enjoy a
more interesting romantic life and actually give women
what they want...
And using the ideas you're learning purely to manipulate
women into doing things.
Most women would really prefer if guys would do this
stuff and be more interesting, but there's a danger of
using this information, and making people into toys.
I honestly believe that you can live whatever lifestyle
you want... all the way from dating several women at a
time to being married for years... and still do it with
integrity and honesty.
Do the right thing, and be a good guy.
***QUESTION***
David,
Hey there! Thanks for the tips/advice so far. I have
an interesting story about an amazing girl i met online...
we started chatting and we hit it off so well that we
chatted for many hours the first day and by the end of the
second day she wanted me to call her and i did and then by
the end of the week she wanted to meet me and she came
over to my house and well we kinda got straight into it
(everything but sex)...anyways the next day i called her