I took her hand and led her out of the Room,

to
go for a walk." I took her hand and led her out of the
room,
into the hallway, and down four doors to my room. The rest
of the night, we had sex twice, danced later that night at
the house party, and just kinda hung out together after
that.
If I would of done my normal procrastination process before
attempting to pick up this babe, there is no way things
would
of unfolded like they did. A recap of what happened: I saw
an incredible-looking woman, made my interest known
immediately, acted on my signals within the first minute of
the encounter, showed total confidence in my approach, and
proceeded to move and interact with her as if the
forthcoming
night's encounter was meant to be.
Best of Life,
CD
Pittsburgh, Pa
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You are the man. Since most guys probably missed the KEY
part of your story, I'll recap and explain.
Most men hesitate when they see a woman that they're
attracted
to. This is mistake number 1.
Next, most guys don't like the idea of letting a woman know
that they're INTERESTED in a woman romantically. So they try
to come up with nice, friendly, wussish things to say so
they
don't come across like they're attracted. This is mistake
number 2.
Now, of course you don't want to jump on a woman or approach
her in a menacing way, and of course you don't want to act
like
you're so attracted to her that you'd lay down in traffic
for
a date with her...
But what you did was neither.
When a man realizes the things you've realized, and then
takes
action like this, it has an INSTANT AND POWERFUL effect on a
woman. It triggers her ATTRACTION mechanism DIRECTLY... no
talk, no lines, no BS.
The problem, of course, is that most guys have no idea how
this dynamic works, and therefore never take the specific
correct actions that lead to this kind of awesome success.
Thanks for the email.
...those were some great examples of how to do things right.
This week I've been getting an unbelievable amount of email
from guys who have read my book "Double Your Dating" who
have written to tell me their awesome success stories. I
wish I could include all of them, but I literally get
hundreds of emails a week, and there is just no way that I
can include them all. If you've been reading these
newsletters, and you'd like to get ALL of my very best
thinking on how to be more successful at attracting women,
then I'd recommend that you download a copy of my online
eBook "Double Your Dating". It's packed with all of the
secrets it's taken me years to learn and discover. Just
go to:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/
...now and get your copy. You'll be reading it in just a
few minutes from right now, thanks to the power of the
internet.
Thanks for tuning in, and I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
***If you'd like to send me a Success Story, Question,
or Comment, follow these guidelines***
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your
question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuff is great"
and "I don't need to tell you how well your stuff works"
comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of
the specifics... because this helps other guys to see
what's working in different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in
the subject line of the email. I read these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell
me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com
DATING TIP: "EYE CONTACT AND OTHER KEYS"
***QUESTION***
Just wanted to share a little bit of what your lessons have
done for me. I read your book and started concentrating on
what I thought was my weak points. I did as your book
recommended and started picturing myself as the cocky funny
person I wanted to be. I even did the whole daydream
practice thing everyday. I work at a fitness center so I
see lots of hot women all the time. My biggest weakness is
that I look away quickly after eye contact is made. I
decided that before I started trying to approach women I
would make it my goal for a couple of weeks to just make
eye contact and hold it until they looked away. Ok, here is
the good part. After practicing eye contact for a couple of
weeks and doing the whole mental exercise thing, I was at
work one day working out after my break and was practicing
my eye contact thing between sets with this really hot girl
near the dumbbell rack.
I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause I had no
intentions of acting. Well, I had to go over to get a set
of dumbbells for my next exercise and as I got close to
where she was she suddenly turned around and said "I have
a boyfriend" and turned around. Normally I would have kinda
stood there in shock and said nothing but, I guess all that
mental practice paid off. With out even thinking or pausing
the words just came out. I said "Hey that's great I am happy
for you. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is
probably a major accomplishment for you but to the rest a
the world this is kinda normal so you might not want to go
telling every stranger you see." Then I just walked off
with my weights to do my sets. 5 min later she comes over
to me and apologizes and asks for my number. Turns out she
didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of being picked
up by losers while she was trying to do a workout. Thanks
for the pleasant surprise!
KAL
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Niiiiice one.
Your letter is really a wonderful affirmation and
summary of some of my favorite concepts:
1) Read my book "Double Your Dating"
2) Actually use the material and mentally rehearse
3) Start from where you're at
4) Be Cocky and Funny
5) Show complete indifference
6) Use illogical Jedi-Level mind power to create ATTRACTION
First of all, your story would make no sense at all to
most guys. They would say "Yea, whatever. She was probably
abused as a child and wants you to be her daddy" or "Well,
if I worked at a gym I could do that too".
Of course, you realize that this had nothing to do with
either... this was a result of you learning about how
women work, then preparing, then taking action. I couldn't
be more impressed.
Now let's talk about some of the things that were
happening that most people would MISS when reading the
story.
You mentioned your exercise of keeping eye contact
until women look away. This is very powerful. I am guilty
of not addressing this issue more often, and I'm glad
you mentioned it here.
If you can learn this skill, it will communicate
powerfully for you. Great job.
You said "I guess all that mental practice paid off.
With out even thinking or pausing the words just came out."
This is the result of preparation and mental rehearsal.
This wasn't "luck". Even though the words were unique to
the situation, the MESSAGE was delivered clearly. By
learning how to better communicate in the language that
women understand, you created magic.