>>>MY COMMENTS:

>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well I guess you told me!
Here's what I heard you say (my interpretations, of course):
1. Waiting to call a woman back is a bad idea, and if you
don't call her immediately then she'll forget you and not
want to ever see you again.
2. Women are smarter than men.
3. Women are "sitting on the world men are trying to win",
which I'm assuming means what you have between your legs.
4. That you believe I promote "being rude" and "faking being
busy".
OK, where do I start?
I don't know, but I have sneakin' suspicion that you share
the CRACK PIPE with the STONED woman from last week. Don't
tell me that you're a base-head too?
Well, I guess you asked for it, with your off-the-handle
emotional rant... so here goes. (Can you believe that I get
to have this much fun... and call it work?)
So you think that waiting to call a woman back is a bad
idea, huh?
And you think that if you don't call her back immediately
that she'll have forgotten you... and just not be
interested.
This is an interesting line of thinking.
If you're high.
Look, it's soooo commonly known that it's not a good idea
to call a woman the moment after you've met her that even
guys who have never seen the movie SWINGERS know not to
do it!
Yea, I see. I think that from now on, I'll just ask women
for their cel phone numbers, then call them right after I
walk away. I can say "Hi... it's me! Look over your left
shoulder! Here I am! [Waving my arms around]"
That would be cool.
I'd make fun of this idea more, but I have a minimum of
three more incredibly stupid ideas of yours to bust on...
So you think that women are smarter than men, huh? Your
exact comment was "Women have more brains than men". You
know, this is genius level thinking. It's probably because
you're smarter than me that you actually know this.
I'll bet, though, that because you've smoked so much CRACK
that you've killed enough brain cells to make us at least
EQUALLY "brainy". Just a hunch.
I think you took a step down the wrong path with this
comment.
And then you started RUNNING FULL SPEED down that same
wrong path with:
"...all women know we are sitting on the world men are
trying to win..."
Do me a favor... next time you send me an email like this,
send me your address so I can PAY YOU for your
contribution. I wish I could come up with stuff like this
myself.
I see that you've written me an email, so you must have
access to a computer (just a guess). But it seems to me
that you must be pretty new to the internet, because you
obviously haven't figured out that any man can get online
and within 30 seconds be looking at beautiful naked women
for free.
And if they really have a mind to not have to listen to
your mouth AND AT THE SAME TIME "win" the "world" that
women like yourself are sitting on, ALL THEY HAVE TO DO
IS FLY TO VEGAS AND GET A CAB OUT TO THE CHICKEN RANCH!
This is 2002! It's not the dark ages.
I feel like I can speak for most of the guys on this
newsletter when I say that we would like to meet women
who are emotionally stable, friendly, happy, financially
together, etc. (I don't expect you to be able to identify
with this description... don't worry about it.)
It's not our desire to just "win what you're sitting on".
We don't have to anymore. We improve ourselves in this
area because we WANT TO. We're not interested in playing
"Hi there Miss, will you please give me some attention and
some of what you're sitting on?"
And finally, to address your comment that implies that I
teach men to be rude and to fake things...
You're missing the boat entirely. It's like a joke, you
either get it or you don't. And you don't.
Remember, send your address next time! And also try the
spelling and grammar check in your word processor, because
you write like an emotionally unstable middle-schooler.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey,
I have been reading your news letters for awhile now and
decided that I would give it a shot, I got a few one night
stands and then met this girl that I felt really strong for
and went ahead and used what I had learned cocky and funny,
it worked, since I wanted her to be a long term relationship
I also added in some nice, sweet, subtle compliments in
along
the way and it worked we have now been together for about a
month and a half. All that stuff that you said taught me
was
fantastic for one night stands and even long term. Those
people that say it doesn't work are either:
1. Too much of a wuss to try it or
2. have tried it once and only once and probably messed it
up
along the way got shot down and are to much of a wuss to get
back up and try it agian. Right on for your advice and keep
it
coming, you never know when it might come in handy.
R.J.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, I'm going to comment on the "R" word... relationships.
If you attract a woman using these techniques, then you must
remember to KEEP IT FUN AND INTERESTING for her as you move
into a relationship.
You've got the formula right... slowly start doing more
"relationship" type things, subtly complimenting her, etc.
Too many guys switch from being charming, challenging, and
interesting to being full-on WUSSIES when it comes time to
do the relationship thing... which, of course, drives the
woman away.
You must remember that when a woman feels ATTRACTION for
you,
she's feeling it for a REASON. Make sure you keep that
reason
going into the future!
***COMMENT***
Cocky and funny is absolutely the best technique for
getting women, but there is still more to it. Keeping your
composure is also very important. If for any reason you
say...
trip and fall... then don't overreact! Every human on the
face of the planet makes mistakes similar to that, and you
make it a lot worse by blowing it out of proportion by
freaking out in crazy embarrassed way. Just get back up,
laugh
a little and say a little "oops" or something then go on
like
nothing happened. Act like you aren't fazed when you screw
up
around girls. It gives an overwhelming sense to the girls
that you are one confident badass.
Confidence is beyond important. You cannot show fear
of
anything. People have got to look at the world as their own
playground, where everybody else is just their string
puppets
for them to control to get what they want. You've got to
emit
the sense to whatever girl you are trying to hook up with
that you think anything is possible. There is no fear, and
thus there is only supreme confidence. Supreme confidence
will bring you supreme women.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah, one of my favorite topics: COMPOSURE.
I have been thinking a lot about the concept of composure
lately. I'm actually writing a section on it in a future
book... and I spent some time talking about it in the
Los Angeles seminar back in May.
Composure if vital because we humans tend to read very
subtle cues from others, then make large judgments about
them as people.
For instance, if you're the type that let's little things
bother you, then you're probably going to be thought of as
not-exactly-masculine.
For instance, let's say that you're out with a girl for
coffee, and you come out to find a parking ticket on your
car. Some guys I know wouldn't even think about it...
they'd just get upset. They'd start whining, ranting and
raving... and throwing a tantrum... with no regard for
what the woman is thinking of them.
On the other hand, I know guys who would causally pick
up the ticket, make a funny comment, and not even miss
a beat.
What's the difference?
The guy who keeps his composure at all times is FAR more
attractive than the one who doesn't.
Another place that composure plays an important part is
when women TEST men. If a woman starts trying to push
your buttons, becomes demanding, or starts being dramatic
about something, you need to KEEP YOUR COOL.
In fact, some of the guys I know who are THE MOST
successful with women actually don't even respond AT ALL
to drama or tests from women.
They just continue what they were doing.
Oh the other hand, I know some guys who let this kind
of thing take them off balance and upset them (I used
to be one of those guys).
If you let things like this upset you, or even get to
you a little bit, it's going to be obvious that you
can't control your emotions, and it will make you less
attractive all the way around.
Keep your composure. Keep your composure. Keep your
composure.