I have had success with women and it's great

newsletters regularly. I have had success with women and
it's great. Here's my question. It's a common fact that
humans never stop learning, and you are no exception. What
new information have you learned recently that can
supplement the book? Can your subscribers expect a follow-up
booklet in the near future? I don't mean to be ungrateful
but now that I have read your book I feel like the most
well-informed man in the dating game. Knowledge is power and
the more I have the more power I have. Watch out ladies!!!
Can you help me out? I know you have the knowledge
thanks a lot
G- Texas
>MY COMMENTS:
***QUESTION***
Yes Dave, you are 100% correct. Even us older, fatter,
grayer, slower wusses can learn new tricks. I went from a
4 time loser to being called biggest old stud in town! Now
that was a hell of an ego boost! Especially since I'm 48
and close to 300 lbs. and yes, at the moment, I have steady
dates for 3 days of the week every week and 5 others
professing their love for me if only I will come take them
away.
Here are what I found to work:
1) Women over 35 expect you to be extremely inventive with
a cocky funny line or extremely truthful. They all claim it
is because they have had so many used on them, they are
totally immune to them. I tend to go the extremely truthful
route. the ie. you look like the type of woman who would
like a funny witty, intelligent, romantic friend. Have you
found any lately??? I want to shake their hand. Or something
similar.
2) If you are emailing back and forth and they want your
picture within the first couple of exchanges, run do not
walk, that lady to the discard pile immediately. Most of
those are so shallow they can not and will not see what
they are doing, no matter how funny and blunt you are. I
even tried the "what’s in it for me?" line, only to get the
reply of "me stupid, but only if I like your picture"
3) When the lady says I don't think I'm really your type,
you look them straight in the eye and say "ok, plenty more
where you came from" and turn and walk away. 9 out of 10
of them will be calling you in 48 hours.
4) They all know about arranging dates for the week and
finding the dates on the weekend. So tell them you only
have like Friday, Saturday OR Sunday open but not all.
Most will tell you to rearrange your week to fit them in.
The ones really really interested will call you on Saturday
to see if you can go out on the spur of the moment.
5) I tell them all I am too much to handle and too much to
love, so being friends is just perfect. But I have zero
experience in this dating more than one woman thing at a
time. Do you have any advice. Especially since I am sure
to make a lot of mistakes. Yeah, they all want to arrange
more time with me.
So you see, your techniques work. Even my 21 y/o daughter
who reads these occasionally says, "I can't agree all the
way, but damn he sure got the last 5 guys I dated nailed"
Keep up the good work Dave.
M.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, more priceless wisdom.
To answer your question, the way to see more than one
woman at a time is to NOT SEE ANY OF THEM TOO OFTEN.
When you see or talk to a woman more than once or twice
a week, it kicks in the natural "relationship" emotions
and patterns of communication and behavior.
If you keep things to once a week, and sometimes twice,
you'll tend to avoid this.
It's also good to tell the women that you're seeing that
you don't think it's a good idea to get into a relationship
too quickly with someone you just met (I believe this is
a very important idea, myself).
Thanks for the great ideas.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
I thoroughly enjoyed reading your book...very enlightening.
I've always found myself attracting girls I'm not
romantically interested in, while crashing and burning with
the hotties. It was very confusing until I read your book.
I realize now that I was a wuss with the hotties by being a
typical "nice guy", and that the more I acted indifferent
with the girls I didn't like, the more they ate it up. You
gave me a new perspective on what makes attraction work,
and I'm glad to see that your book pointed out that you
don't have to be a jerk to be successful.
My game has improved but it still requires some refining.
Lately I find I'm stalling out between the first and second
date. So I'm wondering if I'm screwing up the date itself or
the follow-through. Here are the steps I take after a date:
1) I call within two days to say I had a good time and
basically make contact. I end the conversation first, and
let her know I'll give her a shout in a couple days...just
so I don't seem like I'm rushing into a second date.
2) I let two or three days pass and call to make
arrangements for a second date. At this point I usually
get a vague answer like "lets set something up for next
week"...and then it never happens.
Where is this falling apart and what kind of follow-through
do you use?
Thanks for the help,
SF
London, Ontario
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I'm going to have to guess at a few things, but I'll give
it a shot.
From the sounds of it, you need to:
1) Stop with the "I had a good time" type comments when
you call for a follow up. You might experiment with
waiting longer to call... or waiting less time to call.
See what works best for you. But don't be so "nice".
2) Do more things to make your date feel ATTRACTION. Use
what you've learned to really turn the dial up. You might