I used it successfully on over (9) women since Jan/02 all
resulting in them wanting much, much more* than I was
willing to give. They all call from time-to-time for fun!.
*Here is where I have the problem and it might help others
trying for this type of relationship. I am single and love
my Space and I want to have fun for a while and eventually
marry again I’m looking for Her and it takes a while to see
if she is Her I get them hooked way too fast and not trying
to do so This is how: Women are attracted to C&F, They want
fun and excitement; I think I know why they want funny for
the fun things to do in life (too many boring guys out
there) and the cocky part piques their inner flames to what
could happen as far as passion. If when you are passionate
with them you have to be a Leader and show them as bad a boy
as they can handle. This has in all instances so far lead
them to call me and pursue me: the next day and weeks ahead.
They want a far deeper relationship. They want C&F in their
lives. These are not clingy people (7-9’s)(24-44yrs) and
profess to want to be friends first. Email is great as it
has
a way of helping them say things they wished they could say
in person. Do you have any wisdom on how to do C&F and not
hit all of her senses?
Thanks Again for C&F
J.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
lol... you poor, poor dear. Sounds tough, really.
I think you're doing fine. You're on the right track, and
I think that you're going to find an outstanding woman to
have a longer-term relationship with.
I personally think that the problem isn't the techniques
you're using, it's that you're now seeing that YOU CAN
CHOOSE A WOMAN, rather than having HER CHOOSE YOU... and
it's making you far more SELECTIVE than you were in the
past.
When you're seeing several attractive women at the same
time, you begin to realize that you can have whatever
you want. You no longer have to settle.
This has the effect of making you a lot more picky about
what you'll tolerate... and it makes you see negatives
a lot more clearly in women.
Again, I think you're doing fine. Just stick with it
and you'll find a great woman to marry again, if that's
what you want.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave.
I don't think the cocky/funny technique will work for me.
I'm 19 y/o, 5' 3" and 117 lb. I have an average build, dark
hair and blue eyes. I also have a fetish for girls with big
bellies. What do you think? Be honest.
SO
Birmingham, England
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, if I can get myself to stop laughing, maybe I can
answer you!
OK, let's make sure I have the facts straight here...
You're five foot three, weigh 117, and LIKE WOMEN WITH
BIG BELLIES?
Honestly, I think you're right... I don't think that the
Cocky and Funny technique will work for you... in fact
...I DON'T THINK ANYTHING IS GOING TO WORK FOR YOU.
Make sure you don't tell any of your other guy friends
about this. It might get ugly.
By the way, you may not have considered this, but women
with big bellies usually got them from eating a lot...
and my guess is that they might be expensive dates.
Watch out.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave:
Dated someone for 4 years. Turned into a wussy boy a couple
times, and both times she left me for the same guy. This guy
was a selfish, conceited jerk, but he was the ONLY guy she's
ever dated who she couldn't wrap around her finger. He was
an impossible challenge...and so her sexual attraction to
him was enormous. (Hmmm...is there a lesson to be learned
here...?) Since we broke up about a year ago, I've been
reading your newsletters and your ebooks. Now I'M the
challenging one. I don't flatter women with compliments, I
don't buy drinks or flowers, I split the dinner tab, I
don't always call (or call back) every day, I keep my social
life busy and interesting. And I never ever EVER lose my
composure with a woman - no matter how much I'm attracted to
them. (In truth: I caved to one woman, told her how
attracted I was to her, and instantly found myself in the
"just friends" pit of no return. Oops. Had to learn the
hard way.) Now every time a woman tries to test my level of
"wussiness" I completely annihilate them with a cocky+funny
comment...and they LOVE me for it. And...of course...guess
who suddenly wants to date me again...
Thanks D,
M.S.
Chicago
P.S. Took this off the end of the 1st paragraph above...it
was getting too long, but I love this perspective from a
woman: While investigating this illogical phenomenon, I
asked a somewhat-attractive female friend of mine "so...can
you shed any light onto the whole 'why women are attracted
to jerks' idea?" And her answer (quote): "Because we're
too leary of a nice guy. Nice guys creep me out. They seem
like I can walk all over them and I hate that. Women want
a bit of a challenge."
>>>MY COMMENTS:
This is truth from the mountain. Read it 100 times a day.
Print it and tape it to your computer monitor.
Put a copy in your wallet... next to the money so you see
it often.
Put one on your car sun visor and mirror.
And go read it again now.
***QUESTION***
Dave:
I downloaded your book a couple months ago, and read your
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