IT MAKES THE WOMAN ACT LIKE A WUSSY!

IT MAKES THE WOMAN ACT LIKE A WUSSY!
This is a tough one for most guys to buy, but it's the
absolute truth... and you know what I'm talking about.
When a woman realizes that she's not going to control
you... and in fact, that she's feeling ATTRACTED to you
and she doesn't know how to handle you, SHE'LL start
getting nervous.
And in my experience, there are only a very FEW
exceptional women out there in the world. I think that
you just need to keep up the search. You'll find yourself
a firecracker if that's what you're looking for.
I personally believe that it's important to understand
this stuff NOT just because you can meet a lot of women
using it...
I think that IT'S TOUGH TO FIND AN EXCEPTIONAL WOMAN
these days, and you're probably going to have to date
quite a few to find one. Knowing these techniques will
help you see through tough exterior female personas,
and start making you realize what you actually want in
a woman.
You're on the right track, stick with it.
***QUESTION***
Hello, I do agree with the Cocky Funny in theory.
However for me it is proving to be difficult in
practice. One of the biggest hurdles for me seem
to be the initial walkup. I am a very shy, nervous,
and easily embarrassed person. Often when I see a
beautiful women my heart starts to thump and my hands
sweat, and face goes red. I have had 2 opportunities
in the past few weeks where I had women come up to me
to ask me for something, once for directions, and once
for a light. I can think of a few things after these
happened, like I could have told the girl asking for a
lighter "those things are bad for you, you
know"....The girl asking for directions was a golden
opportunity missed, I could have been more detailed and
then got her email, but instead I just kind of froze
up and gave her quick instructions. When this happens
I start to get regrets and beat myself up for not
thinking more on my toes.
I do think that places outside of nightclubs are good,
because women don't expect it, and you catch them
off guard, but I was on the tub this morning (subway in
the USA) and saw this absolutely stunning Brazilian, I
thought perhaps I could do the "are you single, my
friend would like you" but all the people around me
made me hesitate and put it off. If I had done it
right at the beginning instead of oogling her in
disbelief I probably could of done it.
For me at this point, just to make an attempt would be
good to give me a boost. I realize I have become such
a wuss. How do I get out of this nervous rut which
keeps me from going for the women of my dreams.
J.P in London
>>>MY COMMENTS:
If it freaks you out too much to approach women in
public, then figure out how to meet them in other ways.
Get online and start instant messaging women...
Go to a pottery or yoga class (if those things interest
you)...
Get a part-time job as a bartender.
Take dance lessons.
There are all kinds of great ways to meet women...
By the way, one of the best things you can do is get
together with a friend, and go out for a day and
meet 50 women. Just approach every single woman you
see and use one of the techniques you've learned.
Then go do it again.
You might get sick the first 5 times, depending on
how deeply-rooted your fears are, but this will help
you get over it.
Part of the problem is that you don't know what to
expect. It sounds to me like you really don't know
how women will respond to you.
By approaching a lot of women one day, you'll find
out that women are usually pretty nice, and you'll
be able to handle whatever happens.
Otherwise, use one of the ideas I gave you above to make
meeting women easier. It might be a good place to start.
***QUESTION***
Now then Dave,
I'll keep it short but first want to echo the feelings of
everyone else on this e-mail by thanking you, your advice is
seriously changing my life. Your stuff is great for people
you've just met or that don't know you to well. However,
I've
just got back in contact with a girl I used to work with 8
months ago. We got on great and regularly went for coffee on
our lunch breaks, so knew each other well. The only problem
was that at the time she was in a relationship, so I had to
fight the attraction I felt towards her. I have now found
out that this has recently finished and want to make a move
on her in the near future before someone else snaps her up.
I've been 'cocky and funny' with her since we met, so that
approach may be less effective than usual. Can you please
give me some tips in how to take this further than just
friendship.
RW
England
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, first I have to ask you... Does she feel ATTRACTION
for you?
When you talk to her now, does she flirt with you?
Next time you talk to her, say:
"You know, I know you want me. It took you 8 months to
finally get up the nerve to admit it, huh?"
See what she says. Bust on her and tease her about how
you know she's been trying to figure out how to get
with you all this time, and see how she responds.
Then, when you're alone with her, lean back, bust on
her, have fun, etc. When you're alone, use the Kiss Test.
You'll figure it out soon enough.
Just make sure you don't ASK her. No, no, no.
No Wussy behavior please!
***COMMENT***
Hi David,
I have only one word for you to start with, and I guess you
know in which context to place it:
==> "Damn" <==
When I was reading your book, say about a month or 4 ago, I
thought to my self, this wisenoze thinks he knows it all, I
hope he don't expect me to believe all that sh**.
Now, 3 months later, I must confess......"Damn"
E., Belgium
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, thank you.
I think.
***QUESTION***
hey david
u really know what ur talkin about, this stuff works like a
charm. In your last news letter you had a girls email in it,
and she said that she would fall over and open her legs for
any
man who used the c&f whether he was GOOD LOOKING or NOT. so
my
question is how much does looks really matter. lets say u
got