"Can I take you out sometime?"

aren't approached often, or when they are it's the same
old lame, boring stuff time after time...
"Can I take you out sometime?"
"So you probably have a boyfriend, right?"
Or guys just watch with the "I wish I wasn't such a
total and complete WUSSY because you're very attractive
and I'd give one of my front teeth in exchange for just
one chance to talk to you" look.
Ugh.
In any event, YES, this stuff works on guys. In fact, it
works on just about everyone. Damn shame you even need
to ask.
***QUESTION***
Hi David!
I just broke with my wife of six years. So I´m starting
the game again. I went to a club this past weekend and
saw a very nice looking girl. She was looking at me a
lot. So I waited around ten minutes and then approach and
asked her, "Are you shy or something?" She said, Why? And
I told her "Because I've been standing here for around ten
minutes and you still haven't said hi to me." As you can
imagine she burst laughing. So I said, Hey, I'm glad you
know how to laugh. She said, So, is this the way you go
out meeting girls. I said, Nah, it's that every time I go
to some place that have girls present they all seem to
get very shy around me, since I'm such a great looking,
sexy man, AS you can see. (Said with a wink).
She kind of blush and smile. We talk for around ten
minutes and I then said, Well, let me see if I can find
my friends around here, It was a pleasure talking to you.
When I was leaving I did your e-mail close and it ran
smoothly. She put her phone number too and a note that
said, "No, I'm not shy, call me soon, C."
E.Q. From Puerto Rico
PS. In your last mailbag there was a guy who used the
c&f routine with his ex wife as practice and it worked to
get her interested in him again. I was wondering what
stuff he told her and how he did it. I'm very interested
to know his technique to see if I can get my ex wife
interested in me again.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, I LOVE the story. That's pure gold.
If you're reading this right now and you want a KILLER
example of Cocky and Funny, read this about 25 times.
As for your ex, I don't know what the specifics were,
but I will tell you this much:
After you've been in a relationship with someone and
acted like a WUSSY for many years, it makes a HUGE
impression when you stop it and start busting balls.
You know the formula, now think up some techniques.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, You're going to luv this one....bought your book
and like a kid in a candy store was eager to prove it
out....
I'm on this date with a 9/10 who selected this outside
Italian Cafe and insisted that it was her turn to pay.
Well, I started busted on her from the time i sat down. I
enjoyed myself immensely as i had NO expectations and
therefore could not be disappointed. I slipped my AMEX
card to the waiter without her noticing and when the
eqchay comes, she looks at me and says: It was my turn to
pay....if you don't let me pay ...I'm not going out with
you anymore(serious look). My response: (serious look
back) If i let you pay what do i get in return? Her
Response: We're going back to your car and I'm going to
give you a BJ like you've never had and you don't even
have to worry about making a mess cause i swallow. My
Response:( in my mind...holy sh** this stuff really
works...well lets turn it up a little..i'm enjoying
this..i'm a natural teaser) No, lets be friends
first...(inside hahaha ...I could tell i was messing her
up real good) Her Response: Nothing(i believe she was in
shock) My response:Now If you say please, i'll let you
pay.....Her Response: Please...Please... (so i let her
pay) Next Day: I receive an email from her saying that
she likes me even more than ever before. Talk about
amplifying the attraction and anticipation.....I'll do
her when i decide....hehehe...for now we're friends.....
Thanks Good Buddy
K
Toronto, Canada
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yea, I'd say that you're starting to get it.
If you keep this up, you're going to have this poor
woman camping outside your door!
It's all about amplifying the attraction and the
anticipation, and I'm glad you understand what the heck
that means.
This is another stellar example of Cocky and Funny in
action... combined with some other more advanced
techniques. Nice.
***QUESTION***
Dave-
Your material does a great job bringing to the masses
what are innate qualities in the
naturally-successful-with-women types. Your book is
almost a study of human behavior, like something Dale
Carnegie would write (I doubt he was as successful with
women though). Anyway, I have a problem with one half of
the magic formula, the 'cocky' part. I've always had
success with deadpan-style humor, with no facial
expression whatsoever, and most of the time people can't
tell if I'm being funny or not based on my expression.
This is where I hit my problem: if I make a cocky/funny
type comment, I'm afraid I'll come off as arrogant if I
don't give a smile or something. But in your book it says
something along the lines of things being funnier if it's
difficult to tell if you're joking. So my question is: Is
it okay to smile while being cocky and funny and busting
on girls? Or should I keep a straight face all the time?
I'm not sure if this email makes any sense, but I think
you'll be able to figure it out. Great stuff, and hurry
up with the next book!