I actually think that this question is VERY important,

I actually think that this question is VERY important,
because there is a lot of confusion as to how and when to
be cocky and funny... and to what extent you should use it.
And before I answer this question, I think that it's very
important that you READ MY BOOK "DOUBLE YOUR DATING" before
you go any further.
My book is the basic foundation of all my thinking. It's
the model that sets up the rules for the game. These
newsletters are obviously full of great stuff, but if you
don't know what the basics are, then you're going to
mis-interpret a lot of what I say.
The reason I say all of this is because I don't always
think that being Cocky and Funny is the best thing to do
when you first meet a woman.
Surprise, Surprise.
In fact, I would say that in MOST cases I don't approach
a woman and begin with Cocky and Funny comments.
If you've read my newsletters for awhile, and you've
read my book, then you know that I think it's best to get
a woman's email address (and/or phone number) in the first
few minutes, then to LEAVE and get another one.
And you don't need to be Cocky and Funny about it most
of the time.
Now don't get me wrong... if the situation call for it,
or the opportunity arises, I'll make some great comments,
but I definitely don't feel like it's a requirement that
you be Cocky and Funny when you first start talking to a
woman.
I prefer to save the Cocky and Funny attitude for later,
either after we've been talking for while or after we've
met up for a second meeting and we're ALONE together.
I do know some guys who are EXPERTS with women... these
guys DO use Cocky and Funny when they first meet women (in
fact, these are the guys who I learned about this stuff
from in the first place). But keep in mind, they're the
MASTERS. They know what to do in every situation, and they
don't care what happens.
If you're just starting out using this material, I'd
recommend that you start out a little slower, and work your
way up to busting on women you've just met, etc.
Cocky and Funny is one piece of a much larger puzzle,
and I'd recommend that you learn the other pieces as you're
learning this one!
And of course, if you HAVEN'T read my book yet, then I'd
suggest that you do so. My book and the three free bonus
booklets that come along with it contain A LOT of
information
that I have NEVER shared in one a newsletter... and never
will. Go to:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/
...now to get it. That's the place to start.
And I'll talk to you in a couple of days.
Your Friend,
David D.
MAILBAG: GETTING STARTED AND APPROACHING WOMEN
THE MAILBAG: Getting Started And Approaching Women
***QUESTION***
David,
I have read your e-book. I think it's great, but questions
always arise. I have been dating a woman for five weeks.
We've had several wonderful dates. She's a really sweet
girl, and I think there is a lot of potential. We have spent
the night together three times, but have not yet had full
intercourse. I give her oral sex every time and always
bring
her to orgasm. When I told that I wanted to have full
intercourse with her, she told me that she doesn't do that
right away. She said she usually does not get naked with a
man, but did so with me because she likes me. We discussed
our feelings about sex, and I have never pressured her.
I always aim to please her sexually. She is definitely
enjoying what I do for her, and I enjoy doing it for her.
Unfortunately, she hardly touches me or does anything to
satisfy me sexually. How should I interpret and handle
this?
I have been considering gently guiding her hand when she
gets
to the right location, but I'm not sure if this is a good
approach. I may even talk to her about it, but I'd rather
her advance on me without my prodding. Should I hold off on
giving her oral sex? My intuition tells me that doing so
would not be very productive. Do you have any suggestions?
E.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
DANGER! You are rapidly approaching the WUSS ZONE!
One thing that you DON'T want to do is TELL A WOMAN THAT
YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER!
Why not? Because you're GIVING AWAY ALL OF YOUR POWER when
you do that.
That's what ALL men want from her... don't make me come
over there and shake you!
You say that you have my eBook. I want you to QUICKLY open
up the bonus booklet that came along with it called "Sex
Secrets". Inside you'll read what to do.
You need to get her turned on more... to the point where
she's ripping your clothes off. Don't just give her
pleasure like Mr. Wussy... that's old. She can get that
anywhere.
You need to be different. You need to build anticipation
and amplify the ATTRACTION. If you don't you're probably
going to find her getting bored of you because you're
so predictable and boring.
Trust me.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave, I need your help !!!
My situation is this..... When I go to clubs, I don’t have
to
much problem going over to a girl that I like, so it isn’t a
lack of confidence. But after a short space of time I find
myself struggling to keep the conversation going and start
asking the boring questions like, Where do you