***COMMENT***

***COMMENT***
G'day,
You said: "You know, I'm really tired of you women treating
me like some kind of piece of meat. I have feelings too, and
I don't just like being thought of as a sex object."
When she gets over that, why not follow up with: "I bet
you'd
kill for my waist too."
It doesn't matter if she's really slim or not. The formula
is
magic and it gets easier the more you use it.
From J in Melbourne
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know, that's a great follow up.
Funny, but a friend of mine in Australia came up with that
original Cocky and Funny approach of "I'm not just a sex
object... I have feelings too" and it's not surprising to
me that someone else from down under would come up with
a great add-on to it.
Nice!
Turning the sexual stereotype roles around, then having
fun with them is a GREAT way to keep conversations going,
and a great way to have fun.
***QUESTION***
OK, I'll keep this short and sweet. I used to SUCK at
getting girls and was terrified of rejection and talking to
strange girls in public. Bought your book, and changed my
whole approach to women. I was in future shop and this
sales-girl dropped this palm screen-cover that I was going
to buy between two glass display cases. So I immediately
starting busting on her with a serious face how she did it
on purpose, just because it was the only one they had in the
store. Anyhow when I was leaving, I told her the least she
could do was to give me her number. She laughed and did, and
I called her the next day. She said she had to go and was
busy, so I told her I bought another screen-cover at her
competition store, to keep up the Cocky & Funny. I called
back 2 more times and each time she was busy. This has
happened a few times when I have called girls after getting
their number. Sometimes I wait a few days after getting a
girl's number, so I don't appear desperate; but this doesn't
seem to have it's desired effect. But I am obviously doing
something wrong because once I get the number, it usually
ends there. When is it best to call a girl after getting her
number, and what's the secret to success to meet quickly for
your half-hour cup of tea plan after getting a girl's
number?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I have just one word for you:
EMAIL.
Get the email.
You'll get probably twice as many emails returned the first
time as you will phone calls.
And with email, you can follow up if she doesn't email
you back.
#2 can say:
"What, playing hard to get so soon? Talk to me."
...and it doesn't come off as needy.
If you CALL and say that, it does come off as needy.
Don't ask me why, but it seems that email has all kinds of
great benefits that the phone doesn't.
Start the dialogue with email, then switch to a short
phone call to set up the first meeting... then move to
meeting in person. Works much better.