Stick with it, you're in a great place right now,

In order to do that, you're going to have to have some real
SKILLS and understanding of how the dynamics of male/female
ATTRACTION works.
Stick with it, you're in a great place right now, and I'll
bet that you're going to meet someone that you like very
soon. But have fun while you're at it, because life is just
too short to run around feeling unsatisfied.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
Ive been reading your emails and i have been applying
some of it and i have found that most of it works. That is
great and all but I really don’t like being cocky and funny
i just like being my sweet self. i like complementing left
and right. What i wanna know is why do women like it when a
guy is a little rude or just plain "full of himself". And
another thing. Why is it that when a woman starts
complaining
about her man or what ever why is it that women Say they
want
a sweet and sensitive guy who respects her feelings? But in
reality she doesn’t. It really doesn’t make a whole lot of
sense to me.
Laterz
DAL Florida
>>>MY COMMENTS:
With all due respect, please do all the women you're meeting
a couple of favors:
1) Stop "complimenting left and right".
2) Stop being "your sweet self".
...unless, of course, you look like Brad Pitt or have over
$10 million dollars. In these cases, do whatever you want.
For the first several interactions with a woman (through the
first 10 dates or so), DON'T ACT LIKE A WUSSY!
When you act like a wuss and give lots of compliments, you
are doing what 98% of all the other guys she's meeting
are doing. You're being average. You're boring. You're
coming across as fake and weak.
If you want to know why it is that women are attracted to
jerks, then read my book or come to my seminar in New York.
The short answer is that WOMEN CAN'T HELP IT. They come
wired at birth to respond to many of the behaviors that
many jerks display. I believe that you can create
ATTRACTION inside of a woman by doing some of the things
that jerks do WITHOUT the abusive part.
Stay tuned for more.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I sent my brother your tips and that same day he bought the
books. He was explaining to me how great your advice i.. He
went out the first weekend that he bought the books.... then
he is calling me at 4 am... he is in 7th Heaven expounding
how wonderful he feels and how great your advice is...and he
is overweight and not attractive at the moment. He has not
been this happy in over 5 years. Thanks for helping my
brother feel good about himself again.
My question is, .. I am in a serious relationship and want
to
keep the energy alive. I have been pouring myself to this
woman and she loves me, but I know that I am into her more
than she is into me (just a little) and I want to turn that
around..... I am probably going to ease up a little and make
her beg for it ..... is that the right approach and can your
book help me too?
M on Oahu, Hawaii
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, I think that the materials can help keep relationships
healthy and interesting, even though I avoid giving
relationship advice or talking about the topic.
As I've said before, it's not that I don't like
relationships
or don't think they're healthy...
I just happen to specialize in the stages before the
relationship, so that's what I talk about.
Thanks for your email, and I'm glad to hear that your
brother is getting this part of his life together.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
I figured I'd give this a try since I'm running out of
ideas.
About 3 months back I met a beautiful spanish girl from
Miami
after spending 2 months of talking to her online. The night
before we met I really screwed up by getting in an argument
with her and telling her not to email me again. (Idiot I
know!) The next day I regretted it terribly but I got an
email back from her saying it was ok and she was happy, and
that God told her I wasn't the guy for her anyway. I felt
horrible. I ended up getting her to meet me the same day,
brought her a rose, and just walked around the mall and
talked with her. She was absolutely beautiful and I could
almost feel tears in my eyes because I wanted her so much
and yet it seemed there's nothing I can do. We spent about 3
hours just talking and then we departed because she had to
leave in a hurry to get home. We talked online again and I
managed to blurt out "Are you ever going to tell me why you
aren't interested in me?" and she responded by saying "lol
it's a long story. it's like I've known you all my life,
just not as a boyfriend." I know I tried to move too fast,
and I did make some mistakes. But now I feel it's hopeless.
She wants to be friends with me, but nothing more and I
can't
see it turning into more. It's like in front of me is this
bag of a million dollars that I just want to take, have a
great time with and so forth..but I know the money isn't
mine and all I can do is stare at it, wishing it was mine.
I know it's stupid but just thinking how much I want her and
knowing I don't stand a chance almost makes my eyes misty. I
can't even meet her in person anymore because I keep
imagining her finding a boyfriend and then I'll have to
pretend I'm happy for when I know it would kill me. I just
want to forget about her but I can't.. I don't know what to
do, it's driving me crazy.. I've never wanted anyone in my
life so much, and it's the only girl that I want is the one
I can't have. Is there anything I can do? Is it time to give
up? How can I forget about the most beautiful woman I've
ever met in my life? Thank you for any help it is greatly
appreciated.
Kind Regards,
S
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oh lord. I'm slapping my head right now... somebody stop me.
Someone needs to shake the Wuss out of you!
Wake up, and stop this immediately!
You need serious help before you hurt yourself. Go to:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/
...before it's too late. And maybe read a couple of Wayne
Dyer books from the 70s so you can get control of those
emotions. You're freaking me out over here.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey dave you rock man i have been using your techniques
for about 6 months, and i can't believe how good it
works..Not only that but most of my friends want to know
what the hell i am doing to get all these girls, I have
actually picked up and slept with three different girls
this week , and if i had more free time it could have
been more like 4 or 5. There are 2 problems though that
i do find, when i have girls always hanging around me i
find that there are always guys that want to hang around
me too, and no word of a lie i have had guys buy me
drinks just to hang out with me, Maybe you should write
another book how to keep the pathetic males away from
the c$f technique, i'll never let the cat out of the bag
the best i can do for them is give them your website :)
2) The more girls i date the more confident i get which
means loooook out ladies...lolol :) seeeya dave keep up
the good work, also try to get a seminar in Toronto k
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well then, you're tearing it up out there.
Your techniques are working so well that even GUYS are