the entire time.

the entire time. Instead, walk away from her into a
different
part of the store once in awhile and let her come find you.
Again, see the difference? At a subtle level, walking
away from a woman communicates "I'm confident and
independent.
I do what I want with my life, and I don't need to stay
right
next to you every second to get your approval."
In the two above situations, a Jerk might do these
things
anyway, but it's always from a SELFISH, OFTEN ABUSIVE place
inside.
It's funny to me, because Jerks attract women by
accident.
By acting like Jerks, they often naturally attract women,
then
say "Hey, cool. I can act like a Jerk and women love it."
Unfortunately, acting like a nice, sensitive guys
usually
won't lead to women falling all over you... so you don't
have
that same experience of figuring out what works early on by
"accident."
If you want to learn dozens of other ideas to make women
feel that ILLOGICAL GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION, then I would
highly
recommend that you download your copy of my online book
"Double Your Dating." You'll learn the secrets that have
taken me YEARS to figure out, all in an easy, simple format
that anyone can use to attract women. Just go to:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/
now and download your copy.
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
DATING TIP: RIGHT AFTER YOU GET HER NUMBER
DATING TIP: What To Do RIGHT AFTER You Get Her Email Address
And/Or Phone Number
And as a quick note, I have to say that I love the emails
that I get that say things like "Please don't print this in
your newsletter... but send me a detailed answer as soon
as you can" and "I'm upset because you didn't email me
back with free advice". lol... I have hundreds of emails
in my SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com inbox from just
the last couple of weeks. So if you're upset that you're
not getting a reply, please get over it. And don't expect
to hear back from me if you say things like "Please don't
print this in your newsletter", because my newsletter is
the vehicle I use to respond to questions. Duh. You can't
even give away free advice these days without someone
whining...
Onward.
>>>THIS WEEK'S QUESTION:
The Guy in the bar Story...
"Why should he have left the bar as soon as he got the
waitress' phone number?"
This is "Ultra Extra Important" you said. I think I know
why he should have left, he was probably starring at her
all night and she was turned off by it, but give me your
complete insight on why he should have left immediately
after getting her e-mail.
Thanks, R.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
As I said in the newsletter you quoted above, this
concept is VERY important.
Understanding why you need to leave at this point
is part of understanding the dynamic called ATTRACTION.
So before I get into the specifics, let's talk about
the underlying process that creates ATTTRACTION...
1. ATTRACTION isn't a choice. It's an emotional reaction.
ATTRACTION is natures way of taking over our minds and
bodies long enough to make sure that we mate with
someone with the best possible genes.
2. ATTRACTION isn't logical, in the sense that it isn't
created by things that "should" create it. Buying women
dinner and gifts, giving lots of compliments when you
first meet a woman, and kissing up to women to get their
approval are examples of "logical" thing that SHOULD
create attraction... but don't.
When you understand how attraction works, you begin to
see that it has a logic all its own.
3. Women aren't attracted to guys who act like needy
Wuss-Bags. When guys give lots of compliments, seek
approval, act clingy, or try to go out of their way
to be overly "nice", it usually backfires. Women run
from wussy men.
4. Unfortunately, many guys are mentally programmed to
a sort of "default wussy" mode of behavior when they
encounter a woman that they're attracted to.
When you combine this default wuss mode with nervous
body language, you create an almost impossible barrier
between you and success.
5. Just like a painting or a song, too much can ruin
an interaction with a woman. You must know when to
leave. Leaving at the right moment creates tension,
anticipation and mystery.
Of course, there are more ingredients to ATTRACTION,
but these will set the stage for where I'm going with
this...
In every situation, you can do something to INCREASE
the ATTRACTION... and you can do something to DECREASE
it. In other words, there's always a way to dial up this
magical emotion.
And yes, you can increase the ATTRACTION even when
you've just met. In fact, this is often the best time
to do it.
Let me ask you a question...
What would most guys do in the situation with the
waitress (or maybe a bar tender)?
Imagine it.