test progressing further on the first date...

test progressing further on the first date... maybe start
getting physical faster.
3) Make sure you keep her laughing, and keep busting on
her and treating her like a "friend" at first. Remember
the idea of acting like she's your Bratty Little Sister.
It sounds like you're doing something on those first
dates that's making the women resistant to seeing you
again... you need to figure out what it is and STOP IT.
***QUESTION***
David,
On vacation in Mexico, a girl asked me if she was "super
hot" and I said "Yeah, you're alright." Next thing you know
she made it her business to prove to me how hot she was,
including some freaky dancing, even flashing me, and a
little lip action. Moral: Never give them what the want. I
moved in to kiss a girl a little too early and she backed
away. So I went back to teasing her and on the next attempt
I went straight for the neck, ears, hands in hair and well
you wouldn't believe it; but it worked that time. Your book
has a lot of very good information, thank you for putting it
together. So here's my question: This girl at my gym is of
those that I've always wanted to talk to but never really
had the chance. She was bartending the other night and I
told her I'd seen her at the gym. She said "yeah, but I
don't make it in there as much lately." I replied "Yeah, I
can tell, you're really letting yourself go." Then she gives
me a shot and asks me if I'd help her with her workout." She
also said she remembered me from the gym and I said "So you
were checking me out?" So I get her number, not bad, eh? So
I'm in the bar for another hour with some friends and I was
going to order a drink from her later, but it might've
seemed like I wanted to talk to her again. She seemed busy
and didn't look at me. Seemingly wuss behavior or she's just
busy? Who knows. That was on Saturday and I called her on
Wednesday, still no reply and today is Friday. I'm thinking
either calling her once more over the weekend, asking about
playing hard to get and if she just randomly gives out
shots, or maybe going back to her bar in a week or two with
some friends. Again, thank you for all you've done and
thanks in advance for any suggestions.
A.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I'm going to tell you something here, and leave it to you
to figure out why it's important:
YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT RIGHT AFTER YOU GOT HER NUMBER.
This is SUPER ULTRA EXTRA important... and I want you to
consider it in your mind until you figure out why.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
I got your e-mails for about a month before i actually
bought the books and I regret waiting so long. I have never
been so confident around women. I stand as a security guard
at the entrance of a retail store and 8's, 9's, and some
10's
pass by me everyday. I used to turn my head and stare away.
Now I know what they want from reading your book and I can
look at them, talk to them, and bust their balls even
without
ever meeting them.
I do have a problem though. I took this beautiful girl
out on a first date, the C&F technique worked so well all
night from the movie to the dinner to the goodnight kiss
(tongue included) that we both definitely wanted a 2nd date.
So what's the problem. She can't stop thinking about me or
leaving me alone. I'm getting 10 text messages a day from
this girl that I really only want to date a few times. I'm
enjoying this bein single dating around and she wants me to
be with her everyday. How can I slow this down, without
losing the C&F personality?
Thanks Dave.
MM
Kentucky
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, another guy who my heart goes out to.
I need to write a book called "Cut Your Dating In Half: A
guide for guys who are too successful with my materials."
I think what you need to do is get together with her and
say: "Look, you're acting like we're married, and you need
to cool it. I think you're great, but I'm not interested
in a relationship right now, so if you want to keep seeing
me, then you're going to need to chill."
I realize that it sounds a little bit harsh, but it's the
truth, and you need to be direct in a situation like this
one.
...and this about wraps it up.
If you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself:
"I'd sure like to have problems like that", then I'd
recommend that you go and download a copy of my online
eBook "Double Your Dating". You can download it directly
to your computer and be reading in a few minutes. Go to:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/
...to download it now.
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
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