***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
Hey Dave,
I'm a female reader, but I still love receiving your
newsletter. I know where you're coming from with a lot of
the
information you explain to the readers. I have plenty of
guyfriends and I am definitely attracted to those jerky
kinda
guys. Your newsletter can apply to the ways women can get
pick up men too.. I mean, a lot of times, its about the
approach and confidence level, so it works for some women.
Sometimes things you write make me laugh because they're
right
on the money and other times I'm like "DAMN so that’s what
the
guy was trying to do". It's enjoyable seeing the techniques
that guys use and their point of views. Do you think there
are
any other newsletters like this out there.. but for gals
like
myself? Keep up the great work!
-c
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Did I mention that I love honest women? Another letter that
speaks for itself... thank you!
***QUESTION***
Dear Doctor David,
Please come round here and kill me I am so pathetic. Ive
read
your book twice now and should be putting some of it to good
use. But it seems that I am completely inept at doing so.
Ive
just been talking to this fine young lady at the gym. (By
the
way Ive been out of circulation for quite some time now
since
my divorce and I'm way out of practice) Anyway I was just
talking to her and all of a sudden I started to go into wuss
mode I even forgot here name as soon as she told me so i
asked here it again, so pathetic! I also hung around for a
little bit to long plus I never asked for her email.
Now I would really like to get to know this girl take her
out
on a date etc. But I'm really sure that I've blown my
chances.
Although she seemed interested mostly apart from the
forgeting
her name part Next time I see her I really want to recover
the
situation and act properly, maybe I should pretend to forget
her name again make a joke of it. what do you think.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
By the way your last news letter was awesome, very
informative, I just hope that I can put it to some good use
and become a "Jedi Master!"
Best regards
AM
Lancaster, England.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hey, you're doing fine.
Every one of us is in a different place in life, and you're
going to get this figured out.
The more you deal with attractive women, the more relaxed
you'll NATURALLY become, and the more easily you'll remember
to do the things you need to do in these situations.
Next time you see this woman, just go about your business
and see if she starts talking to you. If not, no big deal.
The second time you see her at the gym, then talk to her.
At that point, casually say "Hey, do you have email?" Then
get it and LEAVE IMMEDIATELY... have somewhere you're
going... don't linger.
Send her a charming email, and meet her for tea. You're
doing great.
And by the way, stop calling me Doctor. Everyone's going to
start thinking that I'm smart or something.
Hey, maybe I should get one of those Internet PhD's, huh?
"Huh Huh, Hey Beavith... huh huh... that would be kewl."
***QUESTION***
HI David, you are THE MAN!!!
I am in recovery of what you may call "success-with-women"
coma, I was on life support until I found your website, then
EVERYTHING changed!!!! I have managed to go out with girls
that are 8's or 9's in my scale, thing which I haven't done
in almost 5 years (after breaking up with my cheating
girlfriend). Anyway, we went out with some friends to dinner
on saturday and one of our girl-friends went with this
blonde
that was an 9.5-10. So one of my friends started hitting on
her (according to most girls he is very good looking) and
she
was paying attention to him.... at first! I started with my
cocky & funny routine and she was all over me!! To make
things
short I walked home with her email, home and cell phone
number
and my friend ended up with... NOTHING. I wouldn't have been
able to do that in other time. THANKS!!!!
Now my question. There's this girl at the gym I go to, we
have been flirting, and I haven't talked to her, yet. I
can't
come up with really good cocky and funny lines, any
suggestions?
Thanks again!!!
AMFdP
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yea, you'd better hurry up, because the guy in the last
email I commented on is probably at the gym picking her up
right now!
And the funny thing is that I'm going to give you the same
advice. In these kinds of situations, it's best to get the
email address, then send an email the next day. Start a
dialogue, then get her on the phone and meet her for
coffee. It's simple.
Whenever you're in doubt, just remember to take one small
step... don't make a big deal. All you need to do is get
an email and number... then take the next step... and the
next... and the rest will take care of itself.
***COMMENT***
G'day,
You said: "You know, I'm really tired of you women treating
me like some kind of piece of meat. I have feelings too, and
I don't just like being thought of as a sex object."
When she gets over that, why not follow up with: "I bet
you'd
kill for my waist too."
It doesn't matter if she's really slim or not. The formula
is
magic and it gets easier the more you use it.
From J in Melbourne
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know, that's a great follow up.
Funny, but a friend of mine in Australia came up with that
original Cocky and Funny approach of "I'm not just a sex
object... I have feelings too" and it's not surprising to
me that someone else from down under would come up with
a great add-on to it.
Nice!
Turning the sexual stereotype roles around, then having
fun with them is a GREAT way to keep conversations going,
and a great way to have fun.